It's Not You: How Narcissistic People Break Us and How to Get Whole Again

A transformative guide to protecting and healing yourself from the narcissism you can't see, from psychologist and preeminent narcissism expert Dr Ramani Durvasula. REDISCOVER WHO YOU ARE AFTER YEARS OF INVALIDATION. Dealing with a narcissist is hard. One day their confidence and charisma pull you in, the next they gaslight, wreck your self-confidence and leave you wondering what you could have done differently. The answer is- nothing. In It's Not You, psychologist and narcissism expert Dr Ramani Durvasula shows how narcissists hijack our wellbeing, and what we can do to break free from toxic relationships and embark on a path towards healing. Drawing on more than 20 years of studying, teaching and helping people navigate the challenging landscape of narcissism, this book is packed with tips and advice to help you confront toxic cycles, let go of trauma bonds, learn discernment and create realistic boundaries. With the right tools, it is possible to stop blaming yourself and regain your power; this book will show you how.